What is a friend anyway? Why is it that persons want so many of these so called "friends"? The thing is that many persons misuse the word friend. How many persons can seriously call themselves real friends?Who needs' em anyway? Contrary to popular belief everybody needs a friend...
1. A real friend should always make time to be with you if you're in need. Of course, everyone has many responsibilities in their day to day lives, but when it comes to the big stuff, you have to be able to rely on this person.
2. A friend should be good at keeping secrets. Sometimes, secrets are too much of a burden to keep to ourselves, but we can't trust them to just anyone. A real friend would never betray your trust in them and keep your secrets always.
3. A friend should be sympathetic to your problems and try to help you find solutions. Problems never seem quite so bad if we have someone else to help us with them.
4. A friend should never be judgmental. Everyone is human and we all make mistakes. A friend should try to be understanding of this and not make harsh comments when we're most vulnerable.
5. A friend should support you even when you're wrong. They don't have to agree with what you did, but they should be there to help you through it.
6. A friend would never do anything to intentionally hurt you. We all say things we don't mean from time to time, but a real friend would never go out of their way to make you unhappy or harm you in any way.
7. A friend should never be jealous of you. They should be happy for you any time that something fortunate happens in your life.
8. A real friend will do nice things for you just because. There doesn't have to be a reason other than they just want to see you smile.
9. A real friend will always tell you the truth if there is something that you need to know. Especially something that could hurt you, even if they have been forbidden to tell you. A real friend will always have your well-being as a top priority.
10. A friend should be open, honest, and willing to share all the little details of their life with you, within reason, of course.
REAL FRIENDSHIP :)
In my opinion, (which I think matters greatly) A friend is a person who is always there for you, although life isn’t fair, this person is fair to you, someone who is not very judgmental toward you and someone who supports you no matter what…well maybe not everything but most thing I say this because I’m not someone that supports fuckery suh if you're my friend and u a keep up fuckery mi nah support u -_- I dnt think that this makes me a bad friend ...Anyway …Well I can call myself a friend.. A good friend at that but not to everyone it is humanly impossible but I try my best to be genuine to the ones around me so why it is that persons cannot do the same?
I am the type of person who is not afraid express myself when it comes to certain things I am probably a little bit too outspoken but meh I don’t really care…
Being a lazy person, I find it very difficult to do the usual everyday stuff and I find it very hard to understand for what reason someone would purposely getup everyday to act like friends with someone they don’t like when the person could just be real in the first place and avoid all the foolishness? Talk about waste of fucking energy hmm meh I probably shuddnt care… *shrug* Two faced people aren't cool... I know a lot a people like that....
Sorry got a little distracted there…
Another thing that grinds my gears is that one person who absolutely CANNOT be happy for another friend... Like W.T. F. Dude come on! If you are happy for other people then other people will be happy for you when its your time..Stop being so unfair.As the Jamaicans would say... dat a BADMIND! This shouldn't be present in a friendship in my opinion. Jealousy doesn't get anybody anywhere and be grateful for what u have BUT don't be boastful... This may make you seem unattractive... Just dash weh d badmind and value your friend because you'll never know when he/she is gonna need you or worst when ur gonna need them.
* So if you want someone to be a good friend to you, be a good friend to at least one other.
*If there is something that you need to say to someone say it it may make a big difference in somebody's life and may change the relationship to what it should rightly be.
*Don't keep up malice or jealousy in your heart although natural don't allow it to taint your whole mind or relationship with others and learn to be happy for people keep your heart clean and kind for God sakes man!
*Be the best and most genuine person you can be and live life to the fullest and do all you can to make your life and someone else's worth wile.
*Dont make yourself seem like a fool because eventually someone is going to figure u out and you wont have any friends in the end....
I am over this whole real friend fake friend crap but I had this on my mind so I thought I should just put it out there :)
I am over this whole real friend fake friend crap but I had this on my mind so I thought I should just put it out there :)
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